When love is not enough

When you are not loved you are not loved. Stop sugar coating it and making excuses for someone else's actions.

Many people suffer a great deal of heart ache simply because they never loved themselves enough to walk away. How many of you wake up every morning and wish your boyfriend, girlfriend, friend or parent a good morning but they hardly do the same for you? Or check up on your friend when they are sick yet they never do the same?

The biggest excuse that the majority of us use is that they are who they are and you love them anyway with their flaws and you are staying either way. That is very sweet I must say. But majority of us need to stop complain about how you are always there for someone but the feeling is never mutual with them.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with loving someone but that love should not come at the expense of the love for self. It is fine to love someone from a distance. As long as they know how you feel about them and your actions have supported that.

People always say we all don't love the same, which is true, but the honest fact is if someone doesn't love you they don't love you. Stop sitting around all miserable waiting and hoping for the day when they would change for that day might not come.
People will always be who they are and tou will always be you. We can influence one another to change and adopt new habits but never devote your time to changing a grown man/woman.

If that relationship no longer serves your purpose and their's, let it go. Actions speak louder than words.