IN MEMORY OF A FALLEN HERO Pt 2

Love is such an amazing and fulfilling feeling, but it can get really complicated at times. It is always wonderful to see young couples in love, getting married and promising to spend the rest of their lives together. It is even more amazing when those couples seem to be so happy with one another and so in love.

The feeling of love is always so amazing, but relationships in general can get very complicated over time and this could lead to the loss of something that was once so special.

One thing that no one ever teaches you is how to love or how to sustain your relationship with your partner. Most of us use our parents as examples for a loving relationship. Some people get such guidance from TV shows or even movies. The honest truth is that a relationship is only between two people and those people alone and it is up to them to make it work. The moment third parties get involved is when complications begin. Friends and family will always have your best interest at heart, but at the end of the day it is up to you to make that vital decision.

In recent times I have come to learn so much about relationships and the people in them to a point where some revelations are too heart break and can certainly bring tears to your eyes. There is a vital story that is not being told as much as it should be within our society. Day by day if you paid close attention you would hear the stories of most men and what their definition of love. Where I come from a man is considered a sheep and he is not meant to cry. That is probably one worst advice anyone can give you. The reason I say this is because many men walk around with heavy hearts yet because of their pride they never say anything.

When a man commits to a woman he commits fully and no one can change that man’s mind. The sad part is seeing a man committed to a woman who doesn’t know how to appreciate him while she still has the chance.

When you get married young or get into a serious relationship at a young age nobody ever tells you of the challenges you will encounter as you grow together and how to handle them without breaking the bond that you share. Everyone knows that life has its ups and downs and it is during those down moments that couples lose one another, marriages end or a loved one decides to take the easy way out just to keep the vows they made on their wedding day.

Rest in peace...