The After Thought
Ever realized how much you loved someone but by then it is too late for them to hear you? Ever been with someone that you told yourself that it was forever but made a mistake by not showing them on a daily basis and instead you made it hard for them to stay irrespective of how much they loved you?
These are some of the questions most people ask themselves not because they are losers, but because they realize what they just lost. Most of us have heard that in a relationship there is always one person who loves more than the other yet only a few live to tell the story. I am fortunate to be one of those few. For the rest their story gets told on their behalf.
One may ask what love is? As valid the question might be, the answer seems to vary from one person to another as it is not based on a universal theory but on how you feel about that person. It is quite interesting to see the many deeds that have been committed in the name of LOVE; some good and some bad, yet the people who commit those deeds seem to have the love factor in common. Some people literally walk a mile for love and some actually do kill in the name of love. One may wonder what drives person to such an extent.
It is easy for everyone of us to stand on the sides and judge people's actions, but the honest truth is that no one can explain nor understand a person's actions beside themselves. Many people have popularized the term PAIN IS LOVE, but is that entirely true? What is love if then we associate it with pain?
Everyone of us has a limit no matter how deep our love goes. If you don't appreciate what you have while you still have it then there will come a time when you will need to let it go. There comes a time in life where you have to choose between loving someone or something and living. Most people find it very hard to make that choice but eventually they find the courage to do so because in the end you have to do what's right by you; no one will protect your heart if you won't take the first step in doing so.
Today you can have it all and tomorrow it could be all gone, so don't waste your time focusing on things that mean the least in your life and rather on things that matter the most for who knows what the future holds. Every fight has to come to an end.
In memory of a fallen hero.
These are some of the questions most people ask themselves not because they are losers, but because they realize what they just lost. Most of us have heard that in a relationship there is always one person who loves more than the other yet only a few live to tell the story. I am fortunate to be one of those few. For the rest their story gets told on their behalf.
One may ask what love is? As valid the question might be, the answer seems to vary from one person to another as it is not based on a universal theory but on how you feel about that person. It is quite interesting to see the many deeds that have been committed in the name of LOVE; some good and some bad, yet the people who commit those deeds seem to have the love factor in common. Some people literally walk a mile for love and some actually do kill in the name of love. One may wonder what drives person to such an extent.
It is easy for everyone of us to stand on the sides and judge people's actions, but the honest truth is that no one can explain nor understand a person's actions beside themselves. Many people have popularized the term PAIN IS LOVE, but is that entirely true? What is love if then we associate it with pain?
Everyone of us has a limit no matter how deep our love goes. If you don't appreciate what you have while you still have it then there will come a time when you will need to let it go. There comes a time in life where you have to choose between loving someone or something and living. Most people find it very hard to make that choice but eventually they find the courage to do so because in the end you have to do what's right by you; no one will protect your heart if you won't take the first step in doing so.
Today you can have it all and tomorrow it could be all gone, so don't waste your time focusing on things that mean the least in your life and rather on things that matter the most for who knows what the future holds. Every fight has to come to an end.
In memory of a fallen hero.
The After Thought
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Reviewed by K Machacha
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May 22, 2013
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